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  • Michele E.
    Michele E. wrote a new blog entry:
    Dating with lymphedema - 2
    Dating is tough when you’ve had so many bad experiences and poor self image because no one understood your condition.  All I could remember thinking when I was younger and even recently is that:
     
    *I am NOT pretty enough.
     
    *I can...
    • #dating
    • June 15, 2011
    • Michele E.
      Leeney (Ilene) Greenwell Love it! Thank you! Did you read my blog on Dating not being all fun and games? Men haven't really noticed my lymphedema - I am the one freaked out about it! Apparently the eyes and smile captivates them and one just told me my compression hose were...  moreLove it! Thank you! Did you read my blog on Dating not being all fun and games? Men haven't really noticed my lymphedema - I am the one freaked out about it! Apparently the eyes and smile captivates them and one just told me my compression hose were "cute socks." Thanks for sharing!!!!  
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    • Michele E.
      cosmina cocan I have a boyfriend, been together for 10 months, even now after all this time I avoid exposing me to him, yet now I hide my feet ... I do not feel in my element. Yet the relationship goes well, but here came the summer (here we have spring, summer,...  moreI have a boyfriend, been together for 10 months, even now after all this time I avoid exposing me to him, yet now I hide my feet ... I do not feel in my element. Yet the relationship goes well, but here came the summer (here we have spring, summer, autumn and winter). So with the coming of summer, people go to sea and therefore he with his friends. I will not go, because I do not want his friends to be surprised by my condition, to give him scramble and make him feel bad he has a girlfriend with defects, he can have any perfect girl. I will stay home thinking that there will see the perfect girl with normal legs, and that maybe it will give pause for thought if he stay with me or not.  less
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    • Michele E.
      Michele E. You ladies fill my heart with good things to say. I have to run for PT, but I will respond tomorrow - since my smart phone is stupid! Be blessed. I am so happy to know the both of you!
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    • Michele E.
      Leeney (Ilene) Greenwell Thanks sister! You are pretty special yourself and I am pleased to know you, be inspired by you and on and on..... Have a great night - you as well Cosmina!
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      cosmina cocan thx Leeney
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    • Michele E.
      Michele E. Leeney - I loved that post. It was the funniest, I laughed so hard and it's amazing how the names of games are a reflection of LIFE - (thank you, thank you - LC fam, ask Leeney for her blog and you'll see the joke in here). Well, I think we've become...  moreLeeney - I loved that post. It was the funniest, I laughed so hard and it's amazing how the names of games are a reflection of LIFE - (thank you, thank you - LC fam, ask Leeney for her blog and you'll see the joke in here). Well, I think we've become very self absorbed in our lymphedema and we have to stop. We are awesome, and sometimes words cannot describe how beautifully and wonderfully made we are - even with lymphedema!  
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    • Michele E.
      Michele E. Cosmina - you are not defective. The bible says that YOU are fearfully and wonderfully made and it's true. My reply to people who ask me how am I doing during the day is "I am blessed and highly favored". And people receive that blessing and joy...  moreCosmina - you are not defective. The bible says that YOU are fearfully and wonderfully made and it's true. My reply to people who ask me how am I doing during the day is "I am blessed and highly favored". And people receive that blessing and joy knowing you. I don't know your boyfriend, but I do know that even the most perfect "girlfriend" is not perfect. Even the most perfect person has issues that may not be visible like our lymphedema, but a problem within. Ok love - you are awesome!  
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    • Michele E.
      Leeney (Ilene) Greenwell Thank you!!!! I have gotten an overwhelming amount of feedback on it. The whole blog thing - trying to process. Everyone has said I inspire them and my gosh, they weren't kidding. I am so glad it provided you with a laugh!!!!! I had laid down for a...  moreThank you!!!! I have gotten an overwhelming amount of feedback on it. The whole blog thing - trying to process. Everyone has said I inspire them and my gosh, they weren't kidding. I am so glad it provided you with a laugh!!!!! I had laid down for a nap on Sat. and it just came to me. I have a creative side - in case you hadn't figured that out!!!! Thank you for the warm feedback. It helps my confidence. You are awesome!!!!!!  less
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    • Michele E.
      Michele E. Girfriend, we are more then conquerors :-) with a creative twist and beautiful smiles :-)
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    • Michele E.
      Leeney (Ilene) Greenwell I am going to conqueror!!!!! Rocking my new custom compression garments and they are so much better than the non fitting ones. We laughed when we saw them yesterday- they are so short!!!! Thank you again for the kind words!!
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    • Michele E.
      Michele E. Pics - pics, if you rockin' it - I wanna see!
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      Leeney (Ilene) Greenwell Will see what I can do - I hate my picture being taken!!!!
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      Michele E. Hey!!! With a smile like yours...!
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    • Michele E.
      Leeney (Ilene) Greenwell Residual healing that still needs to be done from the "bike wreck" I talk about in my blog!
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    • Michele E.
      Michele E. Ah yes... Take your time no rush. You'll know when you are ready.
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      Leeney (Ilene) Greenwell One day at a time. Enjoy the rest of your day!!!!!
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  • Classification Patient
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  • Birthday February 14, 1976
  • Last Name E.
  • First Name Michele

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  • Jim Miller (sorry for the long post but I couldn't stop) About those compression garments we wear...I know personally how we all are sensitive to wearing our garments in public. Many posts and emails and other blogs are filled with comments about people unwilling to wear their garments "out" in public. Yup, it absolutely does set us apart as "special", that's for sure. So we  either don't wear the garment (dangerous) or keep it hidden even on the warmest of summer days.  I've had primary LE of the left leg for 45 years. I hid my LE garment for over 12 years, too uncomfortable to wear it in public. Then one summer day in 1980 I said to heck with what others think, I'm wearing shorts because I'm hot (no, not "that" hot! Sheesh!). I've worn shorts for every outdoor spring, summer and fall activity (hiking, cycling) ever since, showing off my garment, my big fat leg and my normal-looking muscled right leg. I got accustomed to the special looks and the questions. But most often there were no questions and no looks (that I could see). So what's my point? My point is that I'm realizing that uncomfortableness you all feel about wearing your garment in public is still there with me even after all these years of wearing a garment in public. Because now, you see, the LE has progressed into my once "good" right leg. Now I'm having to wear a thigh high Juzo on the right leg all the time to control the new LE. Yup. Sucks. And so what am I doing about it? I'm hiding it. Wearing long pants or taking it off when I'm going in shorts. Yes: I'm unable to go to the gym with both legs in a compression garment!  Until this week when I convinced myself all over again that nobody cares, nobody is interested, nobody really will notice that both of my legs are in compression garments instead of just one. It's like that little sticky on the refrigerator that says something like dance like nobody's watching. But I must confess, it took a great deal of - something I don't know what - for me to go to yoga class on Monday night and have both legs in garments.  So I feel your pain, people. Every one of you who is uncomfortable going out in public with your arm or your leg in compression garments. Because I'm right there feeling the same thing. And I'm very uncertain if the next time I go to yoga class or go to work out in the gym I'll not strip off the thigh high before I step out there. Silly? No. Challenging? Every day.
  • cosmina cocan I've written , but nobody put me in mind . Expect some feedbacks !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
  • donna brown Hi!  I haven't been on for a while. I want to ask a question about surgery.  I have lymphedema in my right leg and left leg calf.  I fell and tore my rotator cuff and am getting  surgery on Feb 2nd.  Does anyone know if by getting surgery on my shoulder, do I run the risk of getting lyphedema in my arm?  The lymphedema is in my legs,but will surgery opoen up the chance of getting it in my arm?  I'm worried about that happening.  Anyone have any info with this question? I'd appreciate any help.
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  • Had To Say It

    Posted June 17, 2011

    Two blogs in a week!  I can't stop......   In my most recent blog, I shared about the feelings of ...

  • Dating with lymphedema - 2

    Posted June 15, 2011

    Dating is tough when you’ve had so many bad experiences and poor self image because no one understood yo...

  • Dating and Lymphedema

    Posted June 10, 2011

    The dating environment has changed dramatically from mom and dad “recommending” your mate to picki...

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